Being Yourself, Do What You Want to Do
Being yourself do what you want to do in life seems to be a vague idea. It is absolutely important because it helps to give your life meaning and purpose. It allows you to use your unique skills, talents, and interests to create a total life for yourself.
However, it's important to note that pursuing what you want to do in life can often involve many challenges and various obstacles. It may require taking bold risks, facing rejection or utmost failure, and putting in enough effort. It's important to be prepared for these challenges and to have a plan ready to overcome them.
Additionally, it's important to make sure that what you want to do in life aligns with your very basic values and goals. Taking the time to reflect on what truly matters to you and what you want to achieve in life can help you to make you more informed and take purposeful decisions about your future.
Ultimately, the most important thing is to be true to you and to pursue what makes you happy and utterly fulfilled. Life is too short to live. Someone’s dreams or his efforts to go for something may not bring you joy and satisfaction. It is also not a good idea to impose anything on you against your will. What your inner soul wants, you must have to pay heed to.
Actually it is our society that always obstructs us from doing what we actually want to do. It is the laws and regulations prevalent in the society that always go against us. You want to be a doctor, but your family members want you to be a teacher. Again you want to be an actor but it your family and the people around you those discourage you all the way. Actually our dreams are always nipped in the bud. We can only dream but it is the family and the society as a whole always stands before us as barriers.
Hence it is the best way to pay heed to your soul. Hat your mind actually wants. People around you and the people among whom you live dream something special. You have totally a different dream hovering I your eye. Then what will you do? Will you stop dreaming? Will you give priority to the dreams of other people? If you do so you will have to kill your dream and to be imprisoned in the cavern of utter languishment.
Hence it is the best way to think big. But in our society always thinking big doesn’t pay. If I am born in a poor family how can I dream of being a doctor? Again if I want to go abroad and study my budget never fits. It is nothing but a great botheration in our present day society.
In our country it is absolutely true to be rich; otherwise your dreams will remain elusive. But how can you be defeated by your own self? You have to strive hard to hold your head high. You have to keep it in mind that the sky is the only limit.
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We all are born kings. But as we grow these rules of society make us think like slaves. These rules bind us in a claustrophobic room and never allow one to fly. In societies like India and especially in the small towns, it's much prevalent. Parents care about society first and then they think of their child. If society doesn't find it ok to marry inter cast, it's a crime to love a person from another caste. If society doesn't find acting or modeling as a good career option, it's again a crime to be talented. God knows how many such creative souls have lost their creativity and forced to live the way they didn't want to. Today the trend has changed a lot though but a decade back a few of them had the strength to fight their obstacles and follow their instincts.
Life should be given a free flow where one is free to attain whatever one wants irrespective of what others think about that. Life is much more fun when it's spent doing what we want to do and it's the worst when forced on us. We live life only once and it has to be spent like a carnival so that there is no regret when you die. But one aspect which should not be ignored when you say you are doing what you want is, it should never cause hindrance to the freedom of others. It should always be like live and let others and not only think about your motives.