Our Vedas have specifically emphasised that worshipping Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati brings marital happiness into one's life. Lord Shiva, is upheld as a wanderer who likes to stay away from worldly pleasures. As he is always immersed in Sadhana or deep meditation. In Rudra's form, he had turned everything into ashes during the pralaya or annihilation processes on Earth. Although, It was only to pave way for the beginning of a new world. He was pulled out of his ascetic life by Mata Sati and then by Ma Parvati. Lord Shiva first married mata Sati, and her love & respect for Lord Shiva were so deep that she could not tolerate her father's impudence towards him. Lord Shiva went back to his isolated abode after Mata Sati jumped into the sacrificial fire. And as Sati was a part of Ma Shakti, everyone requested Goddess Shakti to bring back Shiva from the self-alienation state inflicted by him. She agreed and took birth as ‘Parvati’ daughter of the Himavan, the king of the mountain. As described in Valmiki Ramayana
“From Mena, this Ganga is emerged as an elder daughter to Himavanta, and a second daughter, by her name she is Uma, is also begotten by Himavanta, oh, Raghava.”
“And that Uma who is unified with her rigorous sacrament thus became reverential to all the worlds, and that best one among mountains, Himavanta, gave such a daughter to Rudra, an unequalled one in his aspect.” Uma is another name for Ma Parvati. She is also the Mula Shakti of Lord Shivas.
Thus once again, Lord shiva was brought back to the samsara world (the material world) by Ma Parvati. And their unified force blesses marital happiness to all life partners. Together they are also worshipped as Ardhnareshwar. It is the consolidated form of masculine Shiva and feminine Parvati.
In a way, it teaches every couple that the two aspects of life: Man and Woman, must blend into each other equally to achieve everlasting love in married life. Shiva and Shakti or Shiva and Parvati are depicted as Purusha and Prakriti in our ancient text. Which means the source of creation and nature. The Creation evolves into life in nature, similar to the life process on earth. Thus, the beautiful portrayal of Lord Shiva and Ma Parvati explains ‘the importance of love, the uniqueness of the man & woman character and mutual respect in a relationship. Anyone who takes care of this very essence of a man and woman alliance, ‘respectfully and rightfully attains ultimate ecstasy in married life or relationship. The Vedic text Manusmriti also describes the importance of a happy relationship in marriage.
“In a family where both the wife and husband are extremely happy
and pleased in the company of each other, there is always
prosperity and welfare in that household.”
The Atharva Veda incorporates various aspects of everyday life events including marriage. It has mentioned in detail about the happy marital life. Some of them are:
- “Hard work and strength should be the traits of a husband, and a wife should be calm and serene. Which will result in a brave and sensible progeny.”
- “Husband and wife should be completely devoid of anger and work together to accomplish household tasks.”
- “Compatibility should never be an issue between a husband and a wife. Love comes with understanding.”
Thus, Atharva Veda shows us that “The husband and wife must have faith, understanding and trust in each other. The wife should always be respectful towards her husband. The husband too should be caring and loving towards his wife so that the bond between them becomes stronger and they enjoy a happy and satisfied married life.”
The ancient text teaches; ‘the prosperity and happiness of the family require an effort from both the partners. And performing Lord Shiva and Ma Parvati puja augments the love and respect in married life. Gradually it overshadows all the conflicts and enhances the mutual admiration, devotion, and bliss required for a happy family life. And you realise the importance of looking for happiness within rather than the outside world.
The 5 important Lord Shiva and Maa Parvati puja
Lord Gauri Shankar Puja
Hey Gauri Shankaradhan Yatha Twam Shankarpriya Tatha Maa Kuru Kalyani Kantkantan Sudurlabham
This puja is primarily performed, to fulfil the desire to marry the chosen person. It solemnises the chosen marriage alliance or increases the chances of fetching you the most suitable match that your heart wishes. As per our epic Ramayana, Maa Sita also carried Gauri Shankar Puja to seek Lord Rama as her husband. The Mantras chanted during this puja benevolently benefit the performer.
- It Pacifies your mind, and you can control your anxiety and unwanted desperation.
- It is most fruitful for unmarried people wanting to get married to the desired life partner.
- It also helps in Manglik Dosh Shanti.
- Diminish or eliminate obstacles built in the horoscope because of the malefic planet. Removing the negative effects helps materialise your long-cherished marriage.
The best time to perform Gauri Shankar Puja is the fourth or fifth day of the Ganesha Chaturthi. Not to worry if you miss that time, it can also be conducted on Fridays. An astrologer will help you in finding the best time and day for the Puja.
Swayamvara Parvathy Puja and Homam
“Om Hreem Yogini Yogini Yogeswari Yoga Bhayankari
Sakala Sthavara Jangamasya Mukha Hridayam
Mama Vasamakarshyakarshaya Swaha ||”
Ma Parvati had to undertake severe penance to convince Lord Shiva of the marriage alliance. Her determination was so strong that Sage Durvasa gave her a mantra ‘to marry her desired consort Lord Shiva. If the devotee performs Swayamvara Parvathy Puja with full dedication and determination it benefits in the following ways:
- It helps those unable to find a suitable match or whose marriage gets delayed for unexplained reasons.
- Improves existing troubled relationships by infusing love and respect in the couple. And this not only reduces unhealthy arguments, negativity, & poverty but also blesses a newborn in the home.
- In case of broken hearts or divorcees it re-establishes the belief in love and creates new opportunities for them for another relationship.
The Swayamvara Parvathy mantra should be recited atleast 108 times per day or up to 1008 times a day, for a certain number of days as recommended by the astrologer. To obtain the best results chant Swayamvara Parvathi Mantra 1008 times per day for 108 days. Askganesha can recite the mantra on your behalf for the required number of times and time duration.
Shiva Parivar Puja
“Om Namah Shivaye, Om Kleem Parvatiyei Namaha
Om Gan Ganapataye Namaha, Om Saravaa Bhavaya Namah”
Lord Shiva has a big family among all the Gods, it includes animals and reptiles as well. His entire family represents power, wisdom, warrior and prosperity. Lord Kartikeya the warrior was born to kill the Taraka demon. And Lord Ganesha the scholar is the remover of obstacles. Thus, Shiv Parivar Puja is regarded most auspicious, since it augments prosperity, harmony & wisdom in a relationship.
Benefits of Shiva Parivar Puja:
- You can simultaneously garner the blessings of Lord Shiva Parivar: ‘Lord Shiva, Maa Parvati, Lord Ganesha & Lord Kartikeya.
- Beneficial for harmony and bliss at home and also for spiritual upliftment.
- Help to gain stability in professional and personal life.
- Keep away any form of negative energy and reduces stress.
- It is believed to cure breathing, lung, chest and depression health issues.
For the success of the Puja, it is very important to carry out a charitable activity for the poor people, animals and birds. Donating items like grains, fruits, animal or bird food, clothes, and metal brings favourable results for the worshiper.
Lord Uma Maheshwari Puja
“Om Namo Namaste Devesh Umadehardh Dharak Mahadevi Namasthestu Harkayardhwasini”
This puja is observed for the longevity and happiness of marital life. Ma Parvati is also known as Maheshwari since one of the names of Lord Shiva is Mahesh. Uma Maheshwari's name has the power and blessings of both. Uma is the expression of Shakti and Maheshwari or Shakti and Shiva. Uma Maheshwari Puja is done for a long and happy married life.
Uma Maheshwari puja removes all hurdles, and you obtain mercy, compassion, love, wisdom and prosperity for the marital life.
- It helps the spouse to build a loving and respectful relationship.
- Also brings clarity and expels any misunderstanding or disputes in the marriage.
- It not only restores harmony but also protects from evil eyes, jealousy or negative emotions inflicted upon the relationship by a third person.
The full Moon day of the Hindu Lunar month of Kartik is the most beneficial time to carry this pooja. Tuesdays and Fridays are also good days for the puja. Askganesha advises performing Lord Uma Maheshwari Puja atleast once a year for happy and peaceful married life.
Maa Uma Maha Anusthan
Ma Uma is one of the other names of Goddess Parvathi, who is an epitome of a devoted, loving wife. This Anusthan is usually recommended ‘for people consistently facing trouble in marriage. Ma Uma’s blessings bring peace and harmony to their life.
Maa Uma Maha Anusthan is the next level of Puja always benefits:
- It is effective in uniting separated life partners.
- During Anushthan couple should focus on the qualities of Lord Shiva and Ma Parvati to imbibe similar love and respect in their marital life.
- For the healthy, happy and long life of both partners.
- Blesses progeny to couples facing problems in conceiving.
An expert priest carries Maa Uma Maha Anusthan for 11 days with special Vedic rituals, Yagya, mantra chantings, and donations in the end. Reap the benefits from this Anusthan you will see quicker results in your lifetime partnership. One crucial boon or advantage of all the above puja is that it removes or mitigates Manglik Dosha in the horoscope and brings immense marital bliss. Lord Shiva and Ma Parvathi are the ultimate power couple for all generations. Especially for the millennials and Gen Z. Imbibing their passion, understanding, love and respect for each other will take your relationship to the absolute zenith.
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