Tips to have a Successful Date

Going on a first date? Nervousness is obvious, but make sure you do not get carried away in the awe of your first date and forget some lesser-known but important code of conduct for the first date. You may get into the soup after a few minutes of meeting your partner on the first date as a few minor blunders can cast a wrong impression and your first romantic rendezvous may turn to havoc. Here are a few simple tips to have a successful date. Know dos and don’ts for your first date to be impressive-

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Do not boast– Make sure your first date doesn’t come out to be a boasting session where you reveal your achievements, your cars, properties, latest purchases, etc. Be humble and focus on your date instead of flaunting your richness.

Honesty is the best policy even for a date– Show your real side, your nature, your likeness, and your dislikes instead of faking out. Relations built on the weak foundation of perfidy don’t last long as basic traits cannot be subsided for long. Remember, honesty is beautiful and appreciated.

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Let the past be past and avoid comparison- If this is a first date with a girl and you have been on a date earlier also with some other girl or a boy, kindly do not revive your past. It wouldn’t be apt to talk about your past dates unless it is asked and in any case, do not compare.

Be at the best behaviour- Being at best behaviour shall not be assumed to faking out or show your gentleman side to partner. Avoid using slang or abusive language which is normally part of your dialect. Be normal, and polite, and make sure not to speak anything double meaning as it may hamper your image.

Avoid last-minute rush- 11th-hour planning usually leads to chaos and your plan may fall flat on the face. It is advised to decide on a comfortable venue with a supportive ambiance. Avoid meeting during peak hours when the restaurant or whatever place you have chosen is flooded by people. It wouldn’t give a supporting environment where you can talk and understand each along with developing romantic angle between you two.

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Avoid flattering and cheesy talks– Meeting someone you are interested in may sway you away due to the hormonal rush inside. Do not jump directly to the state of flattering him/her and speak cheesy lines. This wouldn’t reflect the right image to the individual you are dating as such talks are recommended once you are comfortable or on subsequent dates. Choose every word carefully and don’t show that you have gone gaga over your date.

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Stay Positive and avoid being too inquisitive- First of all, work on creating comfort between you two with little humour and positive talks. You must not talk about too personal topics at the first meeting. Have a light conversation about his/her interests, aims, plans for the future, and hobbies. Inquisitiveness about sensitive personal topics shouldn’t be initiated. Talk about what your partner is interested in and stay engaged throughout. A positive tone should be kept throughout.

Be with all ears to partners- You must show interest and pay attention to your partner on a date. Your interest can be well-determined by your attentiveness in listening to her. You can develop a better understanding and know the other person better by giving all ears to him/her.

Eye Contact- This is vital and reflects your confidence. Make sure that you do not see here and there while chatting with partner on date. Being a male you do not see her often below her neck.

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Don’t show desperation– Don’t be desperate to have physical touch with your date. This could ruin your date and you may be misjudged. Avoid touching and getting mushy on the first date. Physical comfort and consent are necessary to take the relationship to the next stage of physical intimacy.

Don’t forget Etiquettes in excitement- Decorum of a date shall be followed with etiquettes. If you are a male, don’t sit first and ask her choice while ordering. Give her the comfort of sitting, opening the door of a car or restaurant you are entering inside. Let the rule of ladies first be followed well by you. In the last, make sure you don’t show clumsiness by showing her the bill amount. Don’t forget to pay the bill also.

Don’t eat much- This is where you need to be extra cautious as eating too much or too little may make your date a bit uncomfortable. Think of giving company to your date and eat at the pace that he or she eats. If you are a quick eater, make sure your partner doesn’t remain famished. The ideal thing is to eat slowly and order gradually starting with drinks, starters, main course, and dessert. Do ask for the choice of your partner as well.

Unfolding your secrets isn’t wise- Your personal or family secrets shouldn’t be unleashed when meeting for the first time. This shouldn’t be done unless understanding and mutual respects are developed. Talk but do not spill the beans.

Do not peep into the phone- Everyone is addicted to the phone these days, but during conversation checking your phone again and again is not part of manners. It gives the signals of disinterest and rudeness on your part. Do not take your phone out of your pocket unless it is very important. Likewise, taking a glimpse of time again and again too would confer a negative impression of you being not interested in continuing talks for long.

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